Slideshow image

Reflection: Most of us are quick to assume we know what another person needs. We see a challenge, imagine a solution, and move toward fixing it. But love often begins more quietly. It listens. Jesus regularly slowed down to notice people others passed by, and He asked questions that honored them as people, not problems. That posture matters when you build relationships with people with disabilities and their families. Instead of beginning with a program, begin with a name. Instead of assuming what would help, ask. Instead of deciding where someone could serve, learn what gifts God has already given them. Listening communicates dignity because it says, “Your story matters, and I want to understand.” It also exposes blind spots you would never see on your own. This week, resist the urge to lead with answers. Make room for someone else’s experience to shape your understanding, your compassion, and your church.

Application Question: Where are you most tempted to assume what someone needs instead of slowing down, asking questions, and genuinely listening?